Fairness & Biasness
Monday, January 5, 2009 |1:20:00 AM
I know this part is uncalled for.
But I want to share my sadness and also to take this opportunity to voice out the unfairness to us and how I feel too.
Maybe you will be even angrier with us after you read this post.
But I just can't tolerate you scolding him bastard in your blog and scolding him vulgarities.
What the next letter to L?
M!
Alright, maybe all these are my assumptions and if you are really not referring to him.
But will it be so coincidental that you blog on the same day?
I will apologized to you face to face if I really accused you and I will delete this part which is uncalled for.
Otherwise, it will still remain here and no apologies will be make.
Or maybe after you read this post you will return me another post you writtenbad about us at your blog.
My assumptions too.
If you really did that.
I really have nothing to say and won't want to quarrel with you anymore.
As, I hope everything is end after the day I last talked to you on the phone and now.
To be precies, the purpose of this post is to let you know how i feel about this whole chunk of things.
Alright, now I shall share and analysis the problem.
One afternoon, Miss K messaged me, asking me & dar to paid the food money, $14 each.
Previously, both of us has paid the lodging money.
because during the lodging time, dardar and Mr A had went to NTUC to buy some food and drinks for the lodging.
Each of them spent $16 and $15 respectively.
Therefore, dar suggested to Mr k that why not he doesn't need to pay his part whereas I still paid mine.
Initially, he agreed on phone.
Therefore, we took his word.
Maybe he greed unwillingness because maybe on the other side he was busy settling problems with others too.
That's why he agreed.
And we decided to pay my part the next few days when dardar see Mr K or what or maybe ibanking next week.
But at night, while we were playing MJ with Dardar's friends.
Miss K messaged me and called me 2 times again.
However, I didn't heard/notice it as my phone was in silent mode moreover I was playing MJ.
When we saw the message, dardar just messaged her and tell her why didn't Mr K tell him instead and used Miss K as a shield to message me in a nice tone.
Moreover I did even reply 'sorry for late reply and blah blah blah' after I saw those message and missed calls... ... ...
But how do you sounds in return?
Do you remember?
You sounds so rude, sarcastic, vulgar and unreasonable.
You weren't sound nice at all.
Do you?
Can't you just talk to us over it nicely and tell us how you feel over this matter or asked us to stand in your place or something?
Maybe last time Miss K will do that.
I assumed.
Alright let me analysis to you.
Won't you find it like 多尺一据 ?
Dardar paid you guys $14 and in the end you guys still need to pay him back $16?
Hellooooo?
Logical thinking.
You can save these unnecessary procedures.
And maybe you don't even need to fork out another $2 to pay him back if he didn't paid the $14.
Can't you just add or top up the divided amount ($31) to others share?
Furthermore, you the one who suggested me the plan of the lodging and I agreed to it.
Therefore, I thought you guys will organise everything?
I mean if you are in my place, I suggested to you something and you agreed.
Will you assume that I will be the organizer too?
Moreover organizer will always be the one who put in more effort the things they planned than the others.
When you guys went to buy food,utensils and Q things, did you guys asked us to go in the first place?
When dardar asked, you guys even said that it's enough people already.
And what you expect us to do?
Okie, you guys marinate the chicken.
But did you remembered dardar did helped to marinate the prawns and sotong?
Dardar did his job when you told him to do so.
Dardar did not reject.
Because he knew he had to do his part too.
During the particular day, dardar did help out at the Q thing and I did help everyone of the P thing.
I mean did we reject or complain?
No, we do it happily.
As for the check in and check out thingy.
You guys asked us to come after you guys called us.
Did you guys even mentioned about checking in with you guys?
Moreover the lodging is under Mr K name, we can't help you guys check in right?
Can we?
And for the checking out next day, did dardar help you guys?
he did!
he helped cleaning the place and we checked out together, can't you remembered?
Why didn't you scold to those who didn't check out with you guys or marinate the food or even buy the necessary things instead dardar?
This is called UNFAIRNESS and BIASNESS!
Obviously!
When you guys asked us to buy drinks, did we reject?
No!
As for the leftover food and drinks, nobody wanna to bring home, therefore dardar brought home.
You guys wanna to throw away meh?
All those food are still unopened and untouched.
It will be such a waste if they are thrown away.
Isn't it?
As for the car thingy, you guys only sent dardar and Mr A to bus stop on the last day and sent me home because it's near your house.
Even on the day when we check in and it was raining heavily, we even came on our own when Mr A & dardar hint you guys.
Maybe next time i will only want you guys to send me to bus stop too, with dardar they all.
Or maybe ther's no more next time.
Did we always asked you guys to send us here and there?
NO!
We only sit in your car once in a while or only when there's outing.
That's all.
If it was others I think you won't be that calculative.
I supposed.
And I really don't know what are the unreasonable shits after all these analysis.
When you did all these, do you guys TREAT US FAIRLY with others too?
Think of it carefully.
Biasness still creeps.
Maybe I accused you of being biasness, but that's doesn't make sense as why you only blog dardar in your post?
And yeah, I agreed, only God will know what is fair.
As I hope that the parties who involved will understand how I feel in my place.
That's all I wanna to voice out.
p.s * Pardon for my English as I know it's bad and I'm bad at using words too.
And till now or then or in the future, I still cherish and treasure you with all my hearts.
No doubts.
I swear!
And I think all these are just misunderstandings.
Not the big problems or unfairness as you thought.
And I think that you have changed, changed to another Miss K whom I don't really know.
But I want to share my sadness and also to take this opportunity to voice out the unfairness to us and how I feel too.
Maybe you will be even angrier with us after you read this post.
But I just can't tolerate you scolding him bastard in your blog and scolding him vulgarities.
What the next letter to L?
M!
Alright, maybe all these are my assumptions and if you are really not referring to him.
But will it be so coincidental that you blog on the same day?
I will apologized to you face to face if I really accused you and I will delete this part which is uncalled for.
Otherwise, it will still remain here and no apologies will be make.
Or maybe after you read this post you will return me another post you written
My assumptions too.
If you really did that.
I really have nothing to say and won't want to quarrel with you anymore.
As, I hope everything is end after the day I last talked to you on the phone and now.
To be precies, the purpose of this post is to let you know how i feel about this whole chunk of things.
Alright, now I shall share and analysis the problem.
One afternoon, Miss K messaged me, asking me & dar to paid the food money, $14 each.
Previously, both of us has paid the lodging money.
because during the lodging time, dardar and Mr A had went to NTUC to buy some food and drinks for the lodging.
Each of them spent $16 and $15 respectively.
Therefore, dar suggested to Mr k that why not he doesn't need to pay his part whereas I still paid mine.
Initially, he agreed on phone.
Therefore, we took his word.
Maybe he greed unwillingness because maybe on the other side he was busy settling problems with others too.
That's why he agreed.
And we decided to pay my part the next few days when dardar see Mr K or what or maybe ibanking next week.
But at night, while we were playing MJ with Dardar's friends.
Miss K messaged me and called me 2 times again.
However, I didn't heard/notice it as my phone was in silent mode moreover I was playing MJ.
When we saw the message, dardar just messaged her and tell her why didn't Mr K tell him instead and used Miss K as a shield to message me in a nice tone.
Moreover I did even reply 'sorry for late reply and blah blah blah' after I saw those message and missed calls... ... ...
But how do you sounds in return?
Do you remember?
You sounds so rude, sarcastic, vulgar and unreasonable.
You weren't sound nice at all.
Do you?
Can't you just talk to us over it nicely and tell us how you feel over this matter or asked us to stand in your place or something?
Maybe last time Miss K will do that.
I assumed.
Alright let me analysis to you.
Won't you find it like 多尺一据 ?
Dardar paid you guys $14 and in the end you guys still need to pay him back $16?
Hellooooo?
Logical thinking.
You can save these unnecessary procedures.
And maybe you don't even need to fork out another $2 to pay him back if he didn't paid the $14.
Can't you just add or top up the divided amount ($31) to others share?
Furthermore, you the one who suggested me the plan of the lodging and I agreed to it.
Therefore, I thought you guys will organise everything?
I mean if you are in my place, I suggested to you something and you agreed.
Will you assume that I will be the organizer too?
Moreover organizer will always be the one who put in more effort the things they planned than the others.
When you guys went to buy food,utensils and Q things, did you guys asked us to go in the first place?
When dardar asked, you guys even said that it's enough people already.
And what you expect us to do?
Okie, you guys marinate the chicken.
But did you remembered dardar did helped to marinate the prawns and sotong?
Dardar did his job when you told him to do so.
Dardar did not reject.
Because he knew he had to do his part too.
During the particular day, dardar did help out at the Q thing and I did help everyone of the P thing.
I mean did we reject or complain?
No, we do it happily.
As for the check in and check out thingy.
You guys asked us to come after you guys called us.
Did you guys even mentioned about checking in with you guys?
Moreover the lodging is under Mr K name, we can't help you guys check in right?
Can we?
And for the checking out next day, did dardar help you guys?
he did!
he helped cleaning the place and we checked out together, can't you remembered?
Why didn't you scold to those who didn't check out with you guys or marinate the food or even buy the necessary things instead dardar?
This is called UNFAIRNESS and BIASNESS!
Obviously!
When you guys asked us to buy drinks, did we reject?
No!
As for the leftover food and drinks, nobody wanna to bring home, therefore dardar brought home.
You guys wanna to throw away meh?
All those food are still unopened and untouched.
It will be such a waste if they are thrown away.
Isn't it?
As for the car thingy, you guys only sent dardar and Mr A to bus stop on the last day and sent me home because it's near your house.
Even on the day when we check in and it was raining heavily, we even came on our own when Mr A & dardar hint you guys.
Maybe next time i will only want you guys to send me to bus stop too, with dardar they all.
Or maybe ther's no more next time.
Did we always asked you guys to send us here and there?
NO!
We only sit in your car once in a while or only when there's outing.
That's all.
If it was others I think you won't be that calculative.
I supposed.
And I really don't know what are the unreasonable shits after all these analysis.
When you did all these, do you guys TREAT US FAIRLY with others too?
Think of it carefully.
Biasness still creeps.
Maybe I accused you of being biasness, but that's doesn't make sense as why you only blog dardar in your post?
And yeah, I agreed, only God will know what is fair.
As I hope that the parties who involved will understand how I feel in my place.
That's all I wanna to voice out.
p.s * Pardon for my English as I know it's bad and I'm bad at using words too.
And till now or then or in the future, I still cherish and treasure you with all my hearts.
No doubts.
I swear!
And I think all these are just misunderstandings.
Not the big problems or unfairness as you thought.
And I think that you have changed, changed to another Miss K whom I don't really know.
